Changing your name after the wedding can be a symbolic and meaningful part of starting your new life together. However, it can also be a bit of a bureaucratic journey. From obtaining your marriage certificate to updating your passport, there are several steps involved in making your new name official. Here’s a guide to help you navigate this process!
Deciding Whether to Change Your Name
The decision to change your name after the wedding is deeply personal. Some choose to take their spouse’s name to symbolize their new union, while others may keep their original name for professional or personal reasons.
When making this decision, consider what feels right for you and your partner. It’s important to discuss your preferences and come to a mutual agreement. There’s no right or wrong choice—just what feels most authentic.
Changing Your Name After the Wedding
Now that you’ve decided on your new name, here’s a step-by-step guide to making it official.
Obtain Your Marriage Certificate
For New Jersey couples you will need to schedule an appointment to apply for a marriage license in the municipality in which either party resides. This can be done up to 6 months in advance and at a minimum of 72 hours prior to your special date. There is a required 72-hour waiting period before your marriage license can be issued, so remember to leave enough time to receive your license prior to your wedding date. On the application, you will need to provide the municipality you plan to be married in. Please inquire within the registrar’s office for further information.
For The Bradford Estate, this would be the following municipality:
Municipal Building
One Hainesport Centre
P.O. Box 477
Hainesport, NJ 08036
609-267-2730, ext 107 or 100
For out-of-state couples, you will need to schedule an appointment to apply for a marriage license in the municipality you plan to be married. This can be done up to 6 months in advance and at a minimum of 72 hours prior to your special date. There is a required 72-hour waiting period for your marriage license to be issued, so remember to leave enough time to receive your license prior to your wedding date.
Keep in mind, when applying you will need to bring a witness with you and all parties must have proper identification. You must return the marriage license that was not used to the issuing municipality for their records.
Update Your Social Security Card
With your marriage certificate in hand, your next stop is the Social Security Administration (SSA). You’ll need to complete the SS-5 form, which is available on the SSA website. Submit the form along with your certified marriage certificate and your current Social Security card. This can be done by mail or in person at your local SSA office. Your new Social Security card should arrive within a few weeks.
Update Your Driver’s License
Next, head to your state’s Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) to update your driver’s license. Most DMV’s do require you to make appointments for updating your driver’s license. Each state has slightly different requirements, but you’ll generally need your current driver’s license, your new Social Security card, and your marriage certificate. Check your state’s DMV website for specific instructions and any applicable fees.
Update Your Passport
If you have a passport, you’ll need to update it with your new name. The process varies depending on how long you’ve had your current passport. If it’s been less than a year, you can usually update it for free using Form DS-5504. If it’s been longer, you’ll need Form DS-82 and may have to pay a renewal fee. Submit the form along with your current passport, a certified copy of your marriage certificate, and a passport photo. The updated passport will be mailed to you. Make sure to check the location you will be visiting as you may need to schedule an appointment.
Notify Your Employer and Update Payroll Information
Inform your employer of your name change so they can update your payroll and tax information. This ensures that your paychecks and tax documents reflect your new name. Don’t forget to also update your email address and business cards if applicable.
Update Your Bank Accounts and Financial Institutions
Visit your bank to update your name on your accounts. Bring your new Social Security card, marriage certificate, and updated driver’s license. You’ll also need to update your name on credit cards, loans, and any other financial accounts. This can usually be done by visiting the institution in person or submitting a name change request online.
Notify Insurance Providers
Contact your health, auto, home, and any other insurance providers to update your name on your policies. This ensures that your coverage remains intact and that all documentation is correct. Some providers may require a copy of your marriage certificate.
Update Voter Registration
To update your voter registration, complete the necessary form for your state, which is typically available online. Submit the form along with a copy of your marriage certificate to ensure your new name is reflected in the voter rolls.
Notify Other Relevant Parties
Don’t forget to update your name with other important entities, such as utility companies, mortgage providers, and any memberships or subscriptions you hold. This helps avoid confusion and ensures that all correspondence reaches you without issues.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Changing your name involves many steps, and it’s easy to make mistakes. One common error is not updating all documents consistently, which can lead to discrepancies. Ensure that your name is changed across all legal and financial documents to avoid future complications. Another mistake is delaying the process; the sooner you start, the quicker you’ll be identified by your new name.
Quick Tips to Make the Process Easier
These tips can help make changing your name after the wedding go a whole lot quicker and smoother:
- Make a Checklist: Keep track of each step and document you need to update.
- Request Multiple Copies: Get several certified copies of your marriage certificate for convenience.
- Notify Everyone: From your employer to your gym membership, make sure every organization is updated.
- Stay Organized: Keep all documents and receipts in a dedicated folder for easy access.
The Very First Step: Get Married
Understanding the steps involved in changing your name after the wedding will make the process smoother and hopefully, less stressful. Every step into married life from your engagement to wedded bliss should be an exciting and joyful experience – and yes – that includes changing your name.
At Bradford Estate, from the first time you walk through our doors, that is our goal – to ensure the entire process, from the initial planning to your wedding exit, is everything you dreamed of and more. And, if we can provide helpful tips to get you started on life after the honeymoon, like changing your name – we’re happy to help!
Just got engaged and ready to start planning your special day? Bring your dream wedding to life at The Bradford Estate. Our expert team is here to help you plan every detail, ensuring your big day is perfect. Contact us today to schedule a tour, learn more about our all-inclusive wedding packages, and start your wedding planning journey with us.